Me, You, Steve, Patrick, Jim ????

Indeed I am, although i haven't been on for quite some time..

I've mostly been involved in the tech aspect, but actors will ocassionally talk to me about things.  Obviously when people try out for parts they are nervous and that makes some a little chatty.  One thing I remember from several discussions is the feeling that several brought up. If an actor auditioning didn't check the "will accept any role" check box they felt that they were going to look egotistical or hard to work with for future roles--or be judged badly by other actors.  If they did check that check box they worried that it decreased their odds of getting the lead role--and most secrettly suspected that the people who got the good parts were pre-selected or checked that box with the director's knowledge and forgiveness.  Also since there were rivalries between players, some felt they could stand being cast in another role-- unless they were cast opposite that "one" person.  In one memorable discussion the woman cast usually in the lead because of her wonderful singing voice didn't want to be cast opposite the guy usually cast in the male lead because his stage kisses weren't stage kisses and she felt he became too attached to her (she was married, but had previously dated the actor).

Yes, its a two way street...it works best if they consider the interests of the director, the community and the show...and if the director is careful of the time consumed.

Funny that you are wondering this, because I personally am about to be in the same boat.  I really want to audition for a show in Feb, but I'm not sure if I will be a fit (Age wise) for the role (the only part that I can conceivably play due to age issues) that I want.  That being said I was hoping that if I didn't get into that show I could audition for another show at another theatre.

Unfortunately, the audition for the other show are tomorrow (they want you to be off book by the time the rehearsals begin so they audition early).  Now I haven't been able to find the play at the library, nor did the director get back to me to see if I could get a script from them, so consequently I don't even know if I will even fancy the play.

This all being said, I would be willing to give up first desired show if I get a main role in this show, but I would be feeling like I'm missing out on potentially getting a role that I want if I am given a smaller role (not to mention the fact that this theatre is about 40-50 miles away).  I too am afraid of coming across as Diva-esque, and for me its not about having a smaller role, but giving up an opportunity to have a lead role in the first show.  Any suggestions?  Or would the advice be the same.