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bullet Posted: 8/03/06 at 10:59pm
Originally posted by KL Murphy

For me it's just about not being worth the time spent... and less about me being full of myself. 

And that's a valid reason.  I can't think why anyone would fault you for that. 

I was once offered one of the poker players in the Odd Couple and I had specifically asked to only be considered for either Oscar or Felix.  But the director was very diplomatic and prefaced his offer with I know that you indicated that you'd only accept....but would you consider.    And for a moment beacuse of the way it was presented I did consider it but because of travel to & from rehearsal it would not have been worth it for the role.   As it turns out one of the leads had to drop out and I was offered the role of Oscar. And the director was concerned that I'd turn it down because he hadn't offered it to me first - are you kidding me!?   For one of the biggest, funniest and most recognizable roles ever I jumped on that like David Ortiz on a fast ball! 

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bullet Posted: 8/03/06 at 11:38pm
I think everyone has already answered your question as I would.  I just admire your honesty in asking it!
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bullet Posted: 8/04/06 at 9:16am

Originally posted by castMe

Hope you haven't wrestled too long with this problem.

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bullet Posted: 8/04/06 at 9:24am

Originally posted by B-M-D

I jumped on that like David Ortiz on a fast ball! 

Boston boy?

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bullet Posted: 8/04/06 at 3:36pm
Originally posted by Topper

I remember one "prima-donna" who would only accept the lead roles -- no matter if he was right for them or not.  When casting a production of "Harvey" the audition form specifically asked for which role would he like to perform.

Of course, he wrote in "Harvey."

LOL!

I may have mentioned it here before, but I once tried to use a fake bio in a show I was not particularly proud of.  The bio was something to the following effect:

Some of (fake name)'s favorite roles have included Godot in Waiting For Godot and all the male roles in Miss Julie.

I'll be sure to use Harvey next time.

Oh, yeah, forgot to say -- I agree with everybody else here .

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bullet Posted: 8/04/06 at 6:03pm
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Originally posted by B-M-D

I jumped on that like David Ortiz on a fast ball! 

Boston boy?

Let's just say a member of "the nation" in close proximity.

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bullet Posted: 8/04/06 at 10:14pm
Originally posted by B-M-D

[QUOTE=KL Murphy]

[QUOTE=B-M-D]I jumped on that like David Ortiz on a fast ball! 

  I assume he is an exponent of the ancient pohmy game of ?Rounders? ?
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bullet Posted: 8/05/06 at 1:13am
Back to the topic (although the side stuff is entertaining, boys) it really comes down to good manners, doesn't it?  If you want only the lead role, say so.  If you will not take a lesser role, don't say that you will and then dissappoint the director by refusing it when you get the call.  Because chances are you are not the first person s/he is calling and when s/he has the show cast and is counting on you to do what you said you'd do, it will be very disheartening to her to have to call people back and let them know that things have changed, and offer parts that she hadn't planned on offering to them...then they know they were not the first choice... this does not help the director build rapport with her cast.  The last person (actually one of my family members!) who told me she'd take a role and then changed her mind hasn't been in any of my shows since.
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bullet Posted: 8/05/06 at 1:54am
  Your right Kathy & I?m sure as we all know or have experienced it when this situation occurs. The drama in attempting to either replace or rearrange the cast mix, can cause a lot of unwanted production problems. Unbeknown to the delicate yoyo who caused it all!

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bullet Posted: 8/07/06 at 6:25am
I have a couple of interesting stories regarding this topic.

First, though, I have to say that I feel like I'm beyond my 'back of the ensemble' days. I'm not a leading man in any sense of the word-but my 'career' in community theater has progressed nicely and I've had the opportunity to play several great supporting and character roles. Also, with my work schedule and the driving time required to get to any theater-I just generally don't feel it's worth the commitment for an ensemble role (though I might make an exception for the right show). May sound snobby-but that's the way it goes. A statictician friend of mine says that when the level of enjoyment does not exceed the work required-it's just not worth doing it. Anyway, that being said-

I recently auditioned for a show and put down that I would only take A, B or C. I marked that I was not interested in any other roles. I discussed my situation and why I would only take these roles (which is long and complicated and lends nothing to this story) with the producer and director before auditions and also made brief mention at the audition. When the producer called to offer me role X (which was not one of the 3 I said I would accept)-I thanked her for the offer and allowing me to audition, reminded her of my situation, politely declined, and asked her to keep me in mind for future shows. Really, I felt I was completely justified in doing so. When I ran into the director at an event a couple of days later, he pulled me aside and basically scolded me for being too much of a 'prima donna' (what do you call al male prima donna?) and was upset that I had told him no.    

My second audition story relating to this happened just this weekend. I went to audition for Alice's Adventures in Wonderland. I had never done a play before-only musicals-the rehearsal time frame was short-about 6 weeks-and it fit very nicely into my schedule before my next project began. I went in thinking that I would take whatever was offered because of those reasons. I was asked to read for a variety of roles during the course of the audition, all in all, I think it went pretty well. So when asked what part I was interested in...I said "Anything... well..anything except for maybe Alice" :) When I got the casting call later that night-the director said he loved my audition and asked me to play the Queen of Hearts (did he realize I wasn't a woman?). I told him I would take anything, right? So I took it! LOL I'm a sucker for a good comedic role anyway :)

My point in all of this, I guess, is this. When a director asks what parts you are interested in-be as honest with yourself and him/her as possible. You never know where that road may lead you.
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